So what is called love??
Is only understanding the needs of your partner,, or really love has no definition,, some people might say that love is everywhere,, eventually I agree to that dear readers,, coz a tree never says ”hey, don’t you dare touch my fruits, these are mine”.. Actually it seems a bit si-fi,, but if he cannot say anything he can show that by not bearing fruits in the next season,, but it does, that’s one kind of silent love of nature, in todays’ time,, all that matters for a couple, to be called happy, only if both understand each other,
Well actually its kind of true story, where, to a girl, it doesn't bothers the way how he pricks his nose in public, and to him, it doesn't matter how she look, he still hold her hand in front of their friends, and say those magic words, isn’t that magical.
So how do you define the word love?, in this new world, love is only about caring for her needs, remembering her birthday, the first day they met etc, this is not what Romeo and Juliet were famous for, they were famous for loving each other so deeply that they weren't afraid of the world.
It is said that Romeo or a Juliet cannot survive in this world if they take a rebirth, is that a compliment or a disgrace, well its kind of true, because Romeo would haven't been showered by stones, he would have been blown away by a nuclear missile, and Juliet wouldn't have struggled so much for him, she simply would have moved on.. But it wasn't like that, that era was of true love and loyalty, which are lost in between friend requests and comments.
Now, in these days, the word happy couple only means a mature boy and a understanding girl, love that was used to be found between the pages of old novels, has been lost between SMSs and Emails, when the era was of a guy and a girl look at each other and then their parents talk, was called love, but now a days, love is meeting at internet, falling into so called true love, not telling the parents about it, cheatings, distances, and depression is what all that is left now.
Let me tell you a small incident that happened with one of my batch mate, a couple of month ago, his relation with his girlfriend, for a third person it is very easy to make out what went wrong and when, so let me please just come to the incident, and by the way their relation was on the verge of a defeat (being sarcastic), so his girlfriend asked him that she wants to go out with her girl friends, simply a hangout day with girls only, he loves her do much and don’t wanted to be a “angrezzon ke zamane ka jailer”(an old dialog form an bollywood movie, meaning, to be strict with everyone).. so he agreed to it instantly and she happily went out of the campus in the morning with friends, promising him that she’ll return soon before her transport arrives, he didn't minded and agreed gleefully by nodding like a baby, but as the day went on, which he could write a 3 page diary that night, was a very terrible day off course, but he, having the frustration inside waited for her outside the campus, waiting for almost 3 hours, and hearing “baby, just an half an hour more, I am coming” every hour. But that time build on the frustration more and more, he waited for her to come back, he thought will have at least 5 minute mins to talk and can tell her what happened that day, but she, despite greeting him with a hello, went on all gun blazing on him, but this time his volcano erupted, the frustration which kept building on, just came out on her, so tell me guys what went wrong and where, you can understand
So, heart asks that same question to the word “world” again that, what is LOVE? Actually love is every where, it is just meant to be felt, and loyalty comes from trusting, no trust on your partner means no value of the relationship,, its like towing a bike with no engine, just because you want to have it with you, so you are dragging it, it can also be like, trust and loyalty are the tires of a bike, if one blows, you cannot go ahead, and what to do in this situation? Either you stop, and fix the problem, or keep it dragging until you get tired,
Interestingly, most of the couples go through the second way, and end up with depression and loneliness, and then comes a stage where they say “love hurts”. But easier way is always not taken by humans, not because they are brave, just because they are stupid, too stupid to understand what is to be done and what is right,
People say, in this world, every one makes mistakes but learning from the mistakes, makes you a person who can survive in this world of endless expectations, but for no reason no one has ever tried to step in the right direction,
Is only understanding the needs of your partner,, or really love has no definition,, some people might say that love is everywhere,, eventually I agree to that dear readers,, coz a tree never says ”hey, don’t you dare touch my fruits, these are mine”.. Actually it seems a bit si-fi,, but if he cannot say anything he can show that by not bearing fruits in the next season,, but it does, that’s one kind of silent love of nature, in todays’ time,, all that matters for a couple, to be called happy, only if both understand each other,
Well actually its kind of true story, where, to a girl, it doesn't bothers the way how he pricks his nose in public, and to him, it doesn't matter how she look, he still hold her hand in front of their friends, and say those magic words, isn’t that magical.
So how do you define the word love?, in this new world, love is only about caring for her needs, remembering her birthday, the first day they met etc, this is not what Romeo and Juliet were famous for, they were famous for loving each other so deeply that they weren't afraid of the world.
It is said that Romeo or a Juliet cannot survive in this world if they take a rebirth, is that a compliment or a disgrace, well its kind of true, because Romeo would haven't been showered by stones, he would have been blown away by a nuclear missile, and Juliet wouldn't have struggled so much for him, she simply would have moved on.. But it wasn't like that, that era was of true love and loyalty, which are lost in between friend requests and comments.
Now, in these days, the word happy couple only means a mature boy and a understanding girl, love that was used to be found between the pages of old novels, has been lost between SMSs and Emails, when the era was of a guy and a girl look at each other and then their parents talk, was called love, but now a days, love is meeting at internet, falling into so called true love, not telling the parents about it, cheatings, distances, and depression is what all that is left now.
Let me tell you a small incident that happened with one of my batch mate, a couple of month ago, his relation with his girlfriend, for a third person it is very easy to make out what went wrong and when, so let me please just come to the incident, and by the way their relation was on the verge of a defeat (being sarcastic), so his girlfriend asked him that she wants to go out with her girl friends, simply a hangout day with girls only, he loves her do much and don’t wanted to be a “angrezzon ke zamane ka jailer”(an old dialog form an bollywood movie, meaning, to be strict with everyone).. so he agreed to it instantly and she happily went out of the campus in the morning with friends, promising him that she’ll return soon before her transport arrives, he didn't minded and agreed gleefully by nodding like a baby, but as the day went on, which he could write a 3 page diary that night, was a very terrible day off course, but he, having the frustration inside waited for her outside the campus, waiting for almost 3 hours, and hearing “baby, just an half an hour more, I am coming” every hour. But that time build on the frustration more and more, he waited for her to come back, he thought will have at least 5 minute mins to talk and can tell her what happened that day, but she, despite greeting him with a hello, went on all gun blazing on him, but this time his volcano erupted, the frustration which kept building on, just came out on her, so tell me guys what went wrong and where, you can understand
So, heart asks that same question to the word “world” again that, what is LOVE? Actually love is every where, it is just meant to be felt, and loyalty comes from trusting, no trust on your partner means no value of the relationship,, its like towing a bike with no engine, just because you want to have it with you, so you are dragging it, it can also be like, trust and loyalty are the tires of a bike, if one blows, you cannot go ahead, and what to do in this situation? Either you stop, and fix the problem, or keep it dragging until you get tired,
Interestingly, most of the couples go through the second way, and end up with depression and loneliness, and then comes a stage where they say “love hurts”. But easier way is always not taken by humans, not because they are brave, just because they are stupid, too stupid to understand what is to be done and what is right,
People say, in this world, every one makes mistakes but learning from the mistakes, makes you a person who can survive in this world of endless expectations, but for no reason no one has ever tried to step in the right direction,
